In my first post in this category, I mentioned I read something about how to be a good friend. Ironically, I’m going to share with you some tips about no friends, the way to make people hate you. I’m sure you experienced them but as it said about learning, repetition is good. Here are the best means to have enemies.

Not having gregarious instinct

The beauty of rainbow comes from its color variety remembered a great man. But it seems that people dislike this idea and prefer bore with the same things. Actually they couldn’t tolerate another tendency that the one they follow. However, if you think I’m clapping for your act of bravura as going out with someone of the age of your cousin’s kid in first class of secondary school, so approximately 11, gathering people during the time they supposed working or sleeping after hard day and making them do non-orthodox practices because you convinced them they’re winning a perfect life, I tell you the truth, you deserve be jailed.

On my legal list of things we can do differently and accessorily irritate earth dwellers:

Don’t sell alcohol, of course you are not an ayatollah, but a responsible who knows when stopping to save your money, your health, your social life and another lives too. Unfortunately, it’s not the case of tankers and sponges around you and you don’t need to take part into their both self and massive destruction plan.

Don’t work in some NGOs because sincerely there is a huge gap between their goals and their actions. What do you say?  The fault of people who work there? Ok, doing psychological test, being inquisitive and having regular monitoring could help. You tried all those things but problems remain? OMG

Don’t be a fake public agent, forgotten the public service, here too, everybody is concerned by his own person.I totally agree this job is just a guarantee to have a few moneys to survive and it’s not challenged. But you can make difference…

Never complain about your life

For this fight called life, you change continuously your strategy to adapt and also overcome. You just don’t have time to complain. Honestly, with your close relatives and friends whom number is less than fingers on a hand, you regularly share what happen to you and comfort each other. Without those precious moments, there is long pressure killed you. For lucky people crossing your path, your smile and advice are a treat but they don’t appreciate it.  They think you are an insipid or boastful person and prefer new tragedy perform on social media or the old gossip.

Getting married

The previous bullets are within the last. But first, let us agree about the meaning, we don’t talk about a vulgar strategy to have social promotion, personal domestic assistant or private sexual gadget but about shared fun and mutual care.

Appreciate by yourself the categories of people who definitely hate you for a small jewelry around your finger : those who claim marriage is nothing but use diabolic means in shadow to get married, those who’s grabbing a person married with another,  those who envy your spouse or you  and find you don’t match each other, those who see your spouse or you as their eternal funder, those who have great ambitions for you, those whom marriage is a failure, those who want to be the unique happy marriage, those you’ve forgotten on your guest list or who don’t have been treated fairly during the meal or for the present of the dowry…